Monday, March 16, 2009
i find it hard to be strict. i am not sure why. it is more hard with miss m. maybe because i dont feel like it is my place to be strict. i am not sure exactly what my role is in her life and what her parents expect from me or where the line is drawn. ugh. if i were to treat her like my own kid i would be a lot more (searching for the word here...) not mean but not so lenient maybe. julian gets away with less than she does. but i also expect more from him-age appropriate of course. i need to heed the advice of la tia loquita and have a talk with nemecio. i dont want to be the one to tell him she asked whats viagra and other questions along those lines...
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oh dear. but i think it's your time to be a.... 'role model.' ouchie. but yet somehow you're also a guardian, eh?
ReplyDeleteas with most things in life, don't you think that it's context specific? there aren't any hard and fast black and white rules. everything depends on timing and the situation at hand....